How to be insightful

by Carlos Miceli on May 19, 2009

in Advice, insightful, listening, reading, writing

Insightful people aren’t smart people. They just know which words to use.

The reason we love hearing insightful people is because they say what we already knew, what we already agreed with. It clicks.

That’s the psychological thing about words. The right combination can do wonders.

Bottom Line: Read and Write, to expand your vocabulary. Listen, to know how to use it.

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May 19, 2009 at 9:18 am

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Jamie May 18, 2009 at 9:46 pm

Genius!

Insightful people also make us feel understood, validated, and less alone. Because they “get us.”

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Carlos Miceli May 19, 2009 at 2:14 pm

Never thought about it that way… Great approach. Or should I say insightful.

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Sam May 19, 2009 at 7:02 am

You are spot on! I think sometimes we underestimate the power of words, until we have one of those moments when we read something that “just clicks.” It’s like a validation of our thoughts and feelings. This, Carlos, is a fittingly insightful post!

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Carlos Miceli May 19, 2009 at 2:14 pm

Thanks a lot Sam! Glad you liked it!

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Kristina Duncan May 19, 2009 at 9:44 am

Agreed. Words are a powerful thing and we use them too lightly. people just say without thinking.

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Carlos Miceli May 19, 2009 at 2:17 pm

Thinking hard is not enough to be insightful. It needs a lot of listening. The power of words lies in the receiver end, instead of the speaker side.

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Jaclyn May 19, 2009 at 5:46 pm

That’s a good observation. I do think there’s a certain intelligence that comes with using the right words at the right time. But yeah, I don’t think the content needs to be original, it just needs to resonate.

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Carlos Miceli May 20, 2009 at 7:08 pm

Totally agree. Original content is harder to create with each day that goes by. You’re competing with the whole world.

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