Comments on: Change Love And Hate

By: Sign of the times… | It’s as simple as putting the biscuit in the basket

Thu, 29 Oct 2009 22:27:55 +0000

[...] solution…. well it’s there for us to think, and then act. Have a read! People either decide to change or are changed by force, no news [...]

By: twenty(or)something » Blog Archive » Don’t Worry, Be Happy?

twenty(or)something » Blog Archive » Don’t Worry, Be Happy? — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:03:39 +0000

[...] really, I don’t care how much you love it or hate it, change can be overwhelming and there’s always some measure to go along with that [...]

By: Dangerous Mindsets — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli

Dangerous Mindsets — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:34:42 +0000

[...] Advice, Decisions, Fear, change, feelings, life, thinking People either decide to change or are changed by force, no news [...]

By: twenty(or)something » Blog Archive » Life Is What Happens

twenty(or)something » Blog Archive » Life Is What Happens — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 10:09:11 +0000

[...] I’ve found that this has been true for me in all aspects in my life — it’s why I value honesty; it’s why I find myself on the side of hating change. [...]

By: Carlos Miceli

Carlos Miceli — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:03:32 +0000

Oh yeah, you are definitely a change lover my friend. One of the bests.

By: Cody McKibben

Cody McKibben — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 08:11:03 +0000

That’s a great graph and interesting read Carlos! I think I’ve always been (at least) a little bit more of a change lover, and definitely experience the ups and downs in ways that others around me find weird sometimes. Maybe that helps explain it. And yeah, I say when you feel something, sad, angry, ecstatic, you should embrace it and express it, don’t act like a zombie just to avoid rocking the boat.

By: Globetrotting Gen Y « Asian Polyglot

Globetrotting Gen Y « Asian Polyglot — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:46:41 +0000

[...] on the change and the unknown that each adventure brings. Today, in reading a blog post titling Change Love And Hate, I realized I am classified as a “change lover” – my mood oscillates between deep [...]

By: Jacqueline Johns - Your Happy Life Mentor

Jacqueline Johns - Your Happy Life Mentor — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 04:11:02 +0000

Someone wise once said “The only constant is change”. We are all constantly changing, hopefully evolving.
I imagine change-haters live in carefully protected, padded comfort zones where no growth takes place. I’d also wager that a lot of depressed people are change-haters – living in fear in front of their televisions.
Change-lovers tend to take life by the throat and see where it takes them, exploring the world and themselves as they go, growing and evolving into the best version of themselves possible.
Fear of change is a sad, but common human condition leading to stagnation and lack of fulfillment.

Thanks for this thought-provoking post.
Live Life Happy!

By: Carlos Miceli

Carlos Miceli — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 22:34:31 +0000

Of course it’s a good thing! thank you for the support and kind words Cheila!

By: Carlos Miceli

Carlos Miceli — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 22:33:52 +0000

I don’t agree bro. You can love yourself, and still want more because life can’t stay still. Growth is part of life, is what makes me wake up every morning. To stop change is to stop growing.

I’m not sure there’s a happy medium…Life, sadly for us, is about extremes. We’ll always find something to bitch about.